The Pillars

Inspired by groundbreaking women before us, emboldened by glassbreaking women around us, and refined by a mother of multitudes.

In the New Home Economics, we as mothers know that what happens in our homes isn’t a backdrop to real life - it is real life. 

Our homes are the safest places, the warmest places - the places where our families are nourished. Our homes are the first economy, the first school, the first laboratory - and the first place where we as mothers can define and redefine our roles as we honor all of our versions. 

What happens at our dining tables, in our gardens - weedy or pruned, in our home offices, and in our kitchens all deserves the same thought and ambition we previously brought to our careers. We’re not striving to make Instagrammable and magazine-worthy homes. We’re not aspiring to become that “name-brand” homemaking woman. We’re simply designing our lives to center on well-being on our terms. As women who led brilliant careers, we don’t need to become someone we’re not - we need to embrace our multiplicity and honor all the versions of woman and mother that we are.

We refuse the idea that domestic life, that family and health, is somehow “less than” other work. At the same time, we believe our intellect deserves outlets that let us shine, be it inside or outside the home, or both. We are not “not working.” We are not “just” homemakers. We’re driven, worthy women with perspective - and we’re bringing that perspective and our values to how we raise our families.

The work we do in our homes is the work of civilization and society carried out at human scale. There is nothing more important than the choice we’ve made for our families - to love and nurture them while we love and nurture ourselves.

Foundations

  • Our families are the foundation of society: healthy societies are built from healthy homes, and healthy homes are built on love and respect.

  • I choose to invest in my relationship as a true partnership, and I build pathways for equity in my home. 

  • My community is built in part by me: generosity of time, resources, and spirit pave the way for a strong village. 

  • For my foundation to be strong, I ask for what I need when I need it.

Rhythms

  • Healthy homes act and rest with seasonality because they are centered around well-being for the whole family. 

  • Schedules and deadlines might have been how my career-life functioned, but home life with young children demands so much more flexibility: rhythm and routine instead of perfect systems fits better for this season.

  • I honor my own need for routine by always valuing myself - in mind, body, and spirit - and building flexible ways to stay true to myself.

Stewardship

  • As a mother, I tending the whole with responsibility. Life does not arrive neatly compartmentalized.

  • The deepest questions of a household are not technical questions of how but ethical and critical questions of why and what we ought to do with our resources

  • Everything that passes through my hands — money, materials, time, energy, soil — is a resource held in trust, not just for my family, but for all families.

  • Keeping my mind and my hands working offers so much potential - not always focused on productivity - because making and trying things is how I stay fluent in the material of my own life.

Integration

  • I am a mother of multitudes. Integrating all my versions - brilliant career woman, woman, thinker, doer - allows me to bring my depth of knowledge and experience to bear in my life. 

  • My children need my integration so that they can dream up their own multiplicity.

  • I integrate my life with my home, nature, and community because being rooted allows me to nurture myself and my family.